Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Stress, Happiness and Money

Recently, these have been the main issues that is revolving around me and my friends. I guess we can't escape from having stress, worry about happiness, earning money and spending money. Some say that if we had money, there will be no stress and happiness is confirmed but do remember there are things in life that cannot be bought, namely friendship and love. How can there be happiness if you don't have friends and love? When you had stress, can money buy it away? But with happiness, it would definitely lessen your stress.

Stress. What is stress? As a physics student, stress is defined as force per unit area. But as a writer, i would defined stress as a state in which nobody wants to experience. Once we are in stress, we think a lot. Sometimes we think about things that we realised there will never be a conclusion but we still want to think about it. Maybe we should just learn to let go. It makes life happier and easier. Maybe we should just learn to accept. For example in work, if you are over stress and unhappy with the environment, just accept the work and work for the experience. Don't force yourself to work in an unhappy mood. Life is like that. It doesn't always happen the way you wanted it to be. I'm also not very happy with my course now. I don't understand anything that sohai is teaching but i just accept the facts in his book. Without understanding, it is difficult to learn. Hence, i'm not learning. I'm memorising.

Happiness. Happiness is a feeling that everyone is chasing after. But who can be happy everyday? I was telling Kim a few days back that i woke up that morning and i know it is going to be a good day. The next day when i saw her in lab, i told her that day is going to be a bad day. Even though i might kick start my day feeling good but we cannot confirm that it will be good for the rest of the day. I'm happy these days. I found out that there will always be a bright side to anything. Be happy and keep smiling cause you might brighten up someone else's day.To be honest, i haven't been having any good days for like 2 years until that night when i met you. Your smile brightens up the darkest part of my life. :D

Money. Arhhh...No need say. Everyone also got economy crisis. It is a never ending crisis. You work, you earn and you spend. Money is not everything but without money we can do nothing. Time is gold. So please spend your time earning money and not spending money. LOL.

To my friends~

Joyce ar~mai stress about that new lecturer d. Think about it la. 1 month plus den you graduate already. CK kor got 1 year + 3 months leh. Very fast nia la 1 month plus. Don't worry la. There's BunBun Bear =.= to cheer you up and there's always CK KOR!!!! Money i cannot help you d. Ask your ATM name CK to help you. LOL. Btw, i would really like to ask, "Are you happy?"

Dear CK kor, it has been quite some time since we had long chats. Partly because we are always busy with something and phone bill is a burden. Don't stress too much over what ever you are stressing now. Maple is good for releasing stress but over mapling can cause more stress in life. Seems like very happy these days besides your packed Tuesday timetable. LOL.

Eddy kor, i know you don't seem happy with your work but just work for the experience and money. I know you are a talent. Mai stress liao la. Happy or not happy also have to kooi jit ji, might as well be a happy man. One day your boss will appreciate you. Btw, your song ROX~ I just call~ to say i love you~ Cheers~

To you, don't think too much about your job d. Just like you say, work for the experience. If you like the nature of the other job then go for the job you like. It is not as if you don't have a choice right? 1k is a lot of different. Nature or money? You can only choose one. I would really like to see the happy you. I'll support you all the way. You are smart. I know you can do it. I'll always be there to listen to you. Chill~

To all my hengtais and jimuis who read these blog, don't stress. Love you guys and girls~

Please leave comment. They releases my stress, makes me happy and can earn me money. Hahas. =P

8 comments:

ck said...

type so much... read until siao... end up wrote the true reason behind it. lol money ^^. lolz it all comes together though. stress, money and happiness. a bit of stress will be good but too much will be bad i would say. juz leave everything on it's own and it'll turn out to be ok at the end. y stress so much when u can't do anything bout it?

money and happiness is confirm important to everyone d. haiz looks like it's time to get serious and think how to earn money d...

tmr is a killer day and i'm still here leaving my first comment in ur new blog... tmr 9 hrs of classes... going crazy d...

no worries man. chill ~

Shu said...

yeah chill is the word~
live like there's no tomorrow.
spend wisely but never deprive yourself of something u really wanted. find what makes you really happy.
as for me, i love food. i don't mind spending a lot on food. my dinner today costed £15 but it made me satisfied. i have no regrets.
money is not everything. sometimes the best happiness comes from the simplest things in life.

Anonymous said...

money. root of all evilness. it's the cause of unhappiness, but without it, it is more worst. money is never enough. i too would say i need more money.

on second thought, lets open a franchise. ^^

dominiqueban said...

ck > wow!!i'm surprise u left me a comment and it is a long 1 indeed. hahas. yea no stress we cannot work our best and no stress our brain will be dead =.=

shu > u siao ar?!?!? 15 pound for dinner. RM 105?!?!?! zzzz..nth is simple in life la.. LOL...

dann > sui hami franchise u wanna open?

Joyce said...

hmm... stress is a good thing if it's in moderation. but if stress too much, it's hell. i noe i noe.. i've been stressing these few days. and pls don ask me questions like, "are u happy?". i think that is such a random question, that it requires one to think what meaning and what aspect it applies to. and, it requires too much effort. =.='' i'd rather not think about it. i am happy, in a sense, but there are some things that i wish were different. but none the less, i am happy. ^^

dominiqueban said...

haha...i knew u dun like that question so i purposely ask..LOL..

runawaycat said...

Who who who? You saw who and your life changed??

dominiqueban said...

KAYPO!!!
maybe is you leh...dun ask me la...i paiseh~