Stress - Love

It has been a while since i last blogged about something serious, something worth reading and something worth spending my time blogging about it. When you see the topic, what was your first impression? It is just another one of those conflict and controversial dramas that I got myself caught inside. Not this time. It was just less than 24 hours and I heard 2 very saddening stories about relationship. Both also involved school students.

A month ago, my bro told me that his best friend, H punched the class wall. I asked my bro what happen why H suddenly go punch the wall. My bro then told me it was because of a girl,L which H like. H likes L but L likes someone else. I was like WTF. 15yo kid go punched wall because he likes the girl and the girl doesn't like him. It was quite sometime that I didn't hear about H from my bro until yesterday,

Bro : Eh, did I tell you H didn't attend school for the passed few days?
Me : HUH? no ar..what happen to him? Punch wall again ar? This time hand broken kah?
Bro : No la..he went to see Psychologist. Then the Psychologist asked him to rest at home.
Me : WTF?!?!?!
Bro : Yea la...real 1...
Me : Why he suddenly go see Psychologist.
Bro : I smsed him yesterday and he told me he every might can't sleep. Everyday after school, he goes home and sit in front of the study table and day dream. Sometimes he even smile and laugh by himself.
Me : Walao...
Bro : I asked him why like that...then he told me these days got a lot of pressure. There had been rumours saying that L is with a form5 guy.
Me (-_-)!!!!
Bro : Then he told me that morning he 5am only can sleep then 7am need wake up go school d. When he got ready to go school, suddenly he fainted.
Me (-_-)!!!! profusely...
Bro : H told me his father gave the psychologist letter to the school and he's not going to school this few weeks.
Me : Is it because his parents pressure him too much in studies?
Bro : No la..he relek 1..If parents pressure where got so relek...

When i heard about it, I totally (-_-)!!!! about it. A 15yo kid because of a girl is now suffering from sleepless night and need to see psychologist.

2 hours ago, i was listening to the radio. A girl called and talked to the DJ. She say that her friend just broke up with her BF and is now suffering from depression. She could sometimes see that her friend will be smiling by herself and her friend will asked weird question out of the blue. She is worried about her friend. According to her, her friend is now resting at home.

When i heard this second story, I find it quite related to the first one. Both involved school students. Both are suffering depression and stress because of a relationship. I have no idea how much they have given or sacrificed in the relationship but i think they should really take it easy because they are still young and there's a long road ahead of their life.

I was hurt deeply by relationship before also. I had to force myself to give up. It wasn't easy but i told myself i had to. Now I'm a happy man. Living each day appreciating things that i never saw when i was blinded by love. There's a lot of things in life worth your time and attention rather than just companionship. I would refer it as companionship. Love doesn't exist if a couple hasn't gone through a series of obstacles. Love is more than 2 person being together. Love is more than hugs and kisses. It is the most complicated feeling in life. It is selfish in nature. It comes and goes without warning. Most of all, it can never be beautiful all the time.

There's a long road up ahead. There are more things in life than you thought. If you hold on too tight on a relationship, you will tend to lose a lot of other opportunities in life. Not only a better companion, you might even lose a better future. Most important, DUN BE A DESPO.

By now you must be thinking who am I to say so much. Maybe you should think who are you to question what I'm saying. Haha. Love has always been magical. Just live with the magic and feel the magic.

Here's a song for you all.